Vulnerability: The Sage’s Superpower

Have you been feeling like something is ready to happen? Like there’s a whisper inside you saying, “It’s time,” but part of you keeps resisting?

Maybe you know exactly what you need to do… yet you don’t want to do it. Maybe that voice in your head — the one that questions, doubts, overthinks — has gotten so loud that you’ve gone numb or stuck.

Here’s the truth: it’s time to let the thing go. Take the lead. Make the change.

If you’ve caught yourself saying, “I wish I was that kind of person — the one who speaks up, who shows up, who reaches big dreams,” this is your moment. Because the difference between that person and you isn’t luck — it’s action. You hold the power to move, to create, to rewrite your story. Destiny isn’t something that happens to you. It’s something you claim. When we take ownership of our life, magic begins to unfold

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Why Vulnerability Matters as a Sage

To have an intimate relationship with life — with others, with Spirit, and with yourself — vulnerability is the doorway.
It’s the moment you choose to soften instead of shut down, to be present instead of perform, to let your heart be seen instead of staying hidden.

A Sage isn’t the one who “has it all together.” A Sage is the one who allows life to shape them — who listens, feels, breaks open, and grows. Vulnerability is what turns knowledge into wisdom. It is the bridge into the depths of your own soul.

To be a Sage is to be open. To risk tenderness. To choose truth over armor.

“The path of a Sage begins with grace — the willingness to be lovingly curious about who you are at your core, why you’re here, and what keeps you choosing this earthside journey. This curiosity becomes a doorway into a deeper relationship with yourself. We’ve been taught that healing and taking time for ourselves is selfish, yet it is the least selfish thing you could do — for you, for your family, and for the ones you love. When you meet yourself with loving curiosity, you open a portal of self-discovery that changes everything from the inside out.”

-Jenn Gilbreth

Shame, Suffering & The Shamanic Path

In The Wisdom of the Shamans: What the Ancient Masters Can Teach Us about Love and Life, Don Jose Ruiz speaks to how shame and suffering create separation — from our spirit, our power, and our authenticity.

Shame is the silent contraction that tells us we are “too much” or “not enough.” Suffering becomes the script that says we must carry our wounds alone.

But the shamanic path teaches the opposite: that everything begins to heal the moment it is brought into the light. Shame hides our medicine. Suffering isolates our gifts. And both keep us from the intimacy we crave with life and with each other.

A Sage learns to witness shame, not obey it. To honor suffering without letting it define their identity. To bring these shadows into ceremony, breath, movement, and honesty — letting them transform instead of control.

This is how the Sage becomes whole. By bringing what hurts into the fire of awareness.

How is This Holding You Back?

Your defenses were born to protect you.
Your walls kept you safe when you needed them.
Your avoidance, your shutting down, your fear of being seen — all of it served a purpose.

But at what cost?
What possibilities have you turned away from?
What love have you held at a distance?
What dreams have you delayed?
What truths have you swallowed?

A Sage asks the brave questions:

Where am I hiding?
Where am I numbing?
Where am I pretending?
And what would open if I stopped?

When you cling to old protection, you sacrifice connection.
When you cling to shame, you sacrifice expression.
When you cling to suffering, you sacrifice aliveness.

This isn’t about blame — it’s about honesty. It’s about recognizing the difference between safety and stagnation. And choosing the path that helps your soul breathe again.

Getting Started

1. When We Take the Risk, the Soul Expands

Every leap of faith stretches your spirit. Each time you say yes to growth, the Universe meets you with new lessons, synchronicities, and opportunities you couldn’t have planned if you tried.
Courage is a magnet for miracles.

2. Move — Just Do It

Overthinking keeps the dream on pause. Movement — any movement — wakes it up. Send the message. Book the trip. Start the thing. The path appears when your feet hit the ground.

3. Remember, You Can Alchemize Anything

Pain, failure, fear — all of it holds potential for transformation. You are an alchemist. You have the ability to turn heartbreak into wisdom, doubt into devotion, endings into beginnings.Your scars are proof that you’ve already done the impossible.

4.Awakening the Sage Within

This is the heart of the Modern Sages path — to walk through fire and emerge luminous. To take radical ownership of your life and meet the world as the medicine you came here to be. When you move, when you choose, when you lead — you become the Sage. You remember that magic isn’t something you wait for; it’s something you ignite. So take the step. Your soul already said yes.

 

Reflection:

  • Where in your life are you being asked to adapt instead of resist?
  • What changes have you been fighting that might actually be invitations to grow?
  • How can you honor the part of you that’s afraid, while still saying yes to evolution?
  • In what ways have you already proven your ability to begin again?

Don’t wait for life to change — become the change. One conscious choice today can rewrite your entire rhythm.

But remember — real change asks for vulnerability. It’s not about having it all figured out; it’s about being willing to be seen in the becoming. To stand in the middle of uncertainty with your heart still open.  To admit, “I don’t know what’s next… but I’m willing to listen.”

This is the quiet courage of the Sage — not the absence of fear, but the willingness to walk with it. To soften instead of harden. To stay awake to the lessons hidden in every ending and every beginning.

At Modern Sages, we walk this path together — not as masters, but as rememberers. We return, again and again, to the living apothecary within us:  the body that knows how to adapt, the heart that knows how to trust, and the soul that never stops evolving.

So take the breath. Take the step. Let your becoming be the medicine.

What is a sage?

This series leads you back to your inner magic — to trusting your intuition, sensing energy, connecting with nature, and opening to Spirit with confidence. A Sage transforms experience into wisdom and discovers a deeper love and connection for life.